What is mediation?

The aim of mediation is to reach agreements that make things better for everyone. It is voluntary, so no one is forced to take part and you can decide how far you want to take mediation.

How does mediation work?

The basic types of mediation are individual meetings or joint family mediation.

Stage 1

You meet with the Roundabout mediator and have the chance to talk about what problems you are having within your family and what might be causing them. You think about what you want to happen in the future and what your ideas are for solving problems.

Stage 2

If you choose, the mediator will contact relevant family members and arrange a similar meeting with them.

Stage 3

If both parties agree, a joint meeting can be arranged somewhere where you all feel comfortable. This is a chance for you and your family to discuss problems with the help of the mediator.

Stage 4

Everybody works together to make arrangements about how best you can move forward.

1:1 meetings with a mediator

There is no pressure at any stage and some people choose to stay at stage 1. A mediator can work with you individually to see problems more clearly, learn from the past and decide how you could handle things from now on to make positive changes and feel more in control of your relationships with others.