Language strategies: Getting down to your child’s level

Language difficulties are nobody’s fault but changing the way you talk can really help your child.

How do I use this strategy?

When you are playing with your child get down to their level so you are ‘face to face’.

• When you and your child are playing together get down on your child’s level so you can be face to face. This could be sitting on the floor, lying on the floor or sitting on a settee, wherever your child is.
• Your child chooses where they are playing as they know what is most fun for them.
• If you cannot physically sit on the floor, get a little chair or a stool.

Why do this strategy?

• When you are at your child’s level you will be more tuned in. You will see things as they see them and be more aware of their interests and what they might want to talk about.
• It will be easier for you to follow your child’s lead.
• You will be more aware of the words to model for them. Your child will know that you are interested in them and what they are doing.
• You will be able to encourage good eye contact.
• You may realise that some sounds, noises, eye contact or body language are directed at specific things you didn’t notice before. This may be your child’s conversation, and you will be in a good position to notice and join in!
• Your child will be able to see your mouth movements as you model words for them.